Be clear about your own sexual values and attitudes.
It will be much easier for you to talk with your child if you have thought through these questions:
- How do you feel about school aged teens being sexually active?
- Becoming parents?
- Who needs to set the sexual limits in a relationship?
- How is this done?
- Were you sexually active as a teen?
- How do you feel about that now?
- Were you sexually active before you were married?
- How do the answers to these questions affect what you will say to your children?
- How do you feel about encouraging teens to abstain from sex?
- What do you think about teens using contraceptives?